Making time to take a stand

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  • By Mark Killin
  • 48th Medical Operations Squadron
October is Domestic Violence Prevention Month. Many may think domestic violence only affects married couples, but that isn't true.
Intimate partner abuse can affect anyone in any relationship. Abuse can be caused by current or former partners, by anyone who shares a child in common or by cohabiting couples. 

In the United Kingdom there is a police call every minute involving abuse. In America, domestic violence costs taxpayers and employers around $5.8 billion yearly.
Many people know a family member, friend or neighbor who has experienced some type of abuse. 

Intimate partner abuse includes controlling behavior and all kinds of physical, sexual and emotional abuse, as well as neglect within any kind of relationship. Abuse is rarely an isolated occurrence; it is most often repeated over a period of time with frequent increases in severity. It also is a surprisingly common occurrence during pregnancy. 

Abuse in the home is wrong and should never be tolerated. As good Wingmen and community members, everyone has a responsibility to contribute to a safer community. That includes creating an awareness of the problem and not condoning abuse. 

The first way to help is by listening without judgment to those affected. Most victims need encouragement to seek help. However, the safety of the victim and any children that may be exposed to the violence is of the utmost importance. 

Everyone is reminded that if they feel there is a real chance of serious harm, they shoul make a referral to an appropriate agency, or speak to a commander or supervisor.
Available helping agencies include: chaplains, family advocacy, life skills support center, and the airman and family readiness center.

How to make a report:
Call family advocacy at 01638-528070 or 226-8070. For after-hours emergencies, call 911 if you live on base, or 999 for those off base. Off-base resources include the National Domestic Violence Helpline at 0808 2000247. 

For more information or to set up an awareness event, call Mark Killin or Rochelle Phelps, family advocacy outreach managers, at 226-8070.