352nd SOW Airman steps in to save a life

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  • By Senior Airman Brandon Esau
  • 100th Air Refueling Wing Public Affairs
Stress can show itself in many forms and can sometimes make things seem like they’re spinning out of control. Sometimes it’s easy to get yourself out of a rut, while at other times people may feel like they’re alone.

Although it can be hard to reach out to others, there are instances when we may need someone by our side.

For Staff Sgt. Alexander Butts, 352nd Special Operations Aircraft Maintenance MC-130J Commando II engine journeyman, simply being there for a fellow community member was something he is grateful to have been able to do.

“A friend of mine was telling me about various posts by local community members on social media, and I was taken aback by all of the brave and incredible stories people were willing to share,” Butts said. “I then came across an individual who was speaking of ending their own life in a few days, and I knew I had to step in.”

Despite receiving medical attention and trying various therapy programs, the individual still didn’t believe anything was going to make their situation better.

“I offered to meet so I could learn their story, find out why they felt that way, and let them know someone cares,” Butts said. “They had a countdown of how many mornings they had left, and it really struck a chord with me and let me know ‘this a truly serious situation.’”

Butts and the individual have met on a few occasions to talk and spend time together, planned a trip to go punting in Cambridge, and even shared an afternoon at the park which also included Butts’ wife, kids and their family dog.

“Everyone matters, and I wanted to be that helping hand,” Butts remarked. “I had learned the person was once a dog handler, so I thought spending time with my dog would be like a type of therapy session.”

Butts said thankfully the person is still here today, after deciding to not end their life and is working hard toward getting the help they always knew they needed.

“I’m grateful they didn’t end their life,” Butts said. “However, it’s a tragedy so many people feel their life is not worth living any more. Suicide intervention and prevention can only come from continued efforts to letting individuals know someone is there for them.”

Prior to this situation, Butts said training through resiliency and suicide prevention programs he’s received during his time in the Air Force prepared him to meet any challenges which could arise.

“What I took away from those trainings, as well as the recent resiliency tactical pause, was that we all need to be there for each other and open communication channels to where people are able and willing to speak about their past experiences.” Butts remarked.

Butts uses what he learned with individuals in the community and the Airmen he serves alongside.

“I always remind my Airmen that their happiness and willingness to come to work is the only way the mission happens.” Butts said. “My happiness comes from my wife and kids, so I try to spread the message of ‘finding something worth living for’. Airmen should not be afraid to ask for help, and I will continue working toward making this a reality.”